A river not explored

Something Jamie had on his agenda for this fall was to drive up the Smith River in search of places to fish from shore. I understand it's known for 'stripers', striped bass. 

Jamie didn't get to do that so I drove from the confluence with the Umpqua about 10 miles upstream. It's a beautiful river, and I witnessed lots of salmon jumping! 

Loving the Umpqua

Rivers were an integral part of who Jamie was, and of our shared life. The rivers on the Oregon Coast are among the most magnificent and one of the reasons we love it here. 

The Umpqua is undoubtedly Jamie's favorite. I took a little of him upriver yesterday. He should have been fishing the Umpqua right now, September 2023 😥.

Final Leg

The final leg of my Memory Pilgrimage took me to several places that Jamie dearly loved. 

The first stop was Cape Blanco State Park, where we frequently camped in our 5th-wheel RV. He discovered an old trail off a service road and we liked hiking out to the cliff along that trail - we never saw another person.

The view is breathtaking: wild and simultaneously peaceful. Jamie would sit silently at this picnic table and just absorb the beauty. I was delighted that the fog was rolling in! Jamie would have loved it so I left a bit of him there to enjoy through eternity.

Sixes River

 I hoped to hike out to the mouth of the Sixes River and the wildest beach you can imagine. 

This river has a very small entry to the ocean; the sand builds up over the summer and eventually blocks the channel almost completely and the river backs up to form a huge lake in the valley. When the fall rains start, the increased water flow eventually breaks open the sand dam and the wild salmon start upstream to their spawning grounds. Jamie had hoped we could fish from shore there this fall - would you believe gonzo anglers fly fish for salmon there?

Dang! The river lake was too high, blocking the path to the mouth and the ocean shore; I waded through flooded sections until I couldn't go any farther. But I released a handful of Jamie's ashes into the water where he would have shore fished.

Last Stop

Last stop of my Memory Pilgrimage was Agate Beach at Port Orford. This beach is within the Tseriadun State Recreation Site. 

The summer sea currents bring agates and other semi-precious stones down from the Elk River, just a few miles north. It is the very best agate beach on the Oregon Coast. The currents have already shifted and I found very few agates yesterday.

Jamie loved this place, often just standing quietly watching and listening to the ocean. I called him my 'old man and the sea'. 

The tide was coming in, with waves hitting this rock outcropping. I walked out onto the rocks and sent a bit of my sweet hubby out to sea.

Saying goodbye

This Memory Pilgrimage has been the most beautiful and the most difficult journey I have ever made. Bringing Jamie back to the places he loved so much, and had planned to spend time at this fall, just broke my heart. He was way too young, way too healthy, way too vital to have his life cut so short. He was not done, dammit! Saying goodbye to him was, and is, so painful.

I realize this junket was most likely also the last time I would visit these places that are so special to Jamie, to me, to us.  Goodbye South Oregon Coast 😥.

Thank you all for joining me. Thank you for your gentle support and caring.

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5"x10" watercolor on Yupo, freely and directly painted without drawing. 'Welcome All' is a slightly imagined Spanish mission somewhere in the hills of New Mexico. Over the years I have had the pleasure of spotting many of these old missions and have taken countless photos; plenty of reference material in my files!  It joins my Land of Enchantment series.